Exactly what is a diva? For different people it brings up different connotations - positive and not-so-positive.
For me, being a diva is not about dressing in the newest styles or being flashy or sassy. For me being a diva has nothing to do with my external appearances. My "divatude" is an attitude. A way of living, thinking and being.
Driven.
My divatude starts with me being strongly motivated to succeed in my personal, professional, and spiritual endeavors. To want to be better then I was the day before. To learn from and build upon the mistakes I've made in my past. To be a role-model for those around me by sharing my experiences and knowledge when possible.
Inspired.
To be inspired is to become passionate about something. To truly care about a group, an ideal, a cause, etc. Helping and empowering others is what inspires me. I am who I am because someone cared enough to sprinkle wisdom and love on me - many times not even realizing they were offering me a life line.
Victorious.
I don't claim defeat. I walk in victory and the knowledge that I know who I am and I know WHOSE I am. When life throws me obstacles (and believe me, it has and is!) I keep a smile on my face, focus on what I can change and keep pressing forward. I try not to worry or dwell on things I cannont change because it won't change the situation. However, by focusing on what I can directly affect - often other issues are solved or alleviated as a domino effect.
I don't claim defeat. I walk in victory and the knowledge that I know who I am and I know WHOSE I am. When life throws me obstacles (and believe me, it has and is!) I keep a smile on my face, focus on what I can change and keep pressing forward. I try not to worry or dwell on things I cannont change because it won't change the situation. However, by focusing on what I can directly affect - often other issues are solved or alleviated as a domino effect.
Action.
Words are great. Dreams are wonderful. Action gets things done! I strive to not only talk the talk, but to, also, walk the walk. I admit my shortcomings and try to commit to changing those things that need to be worked on.
There you have it, Divas! That's what my divatude is all about and I encourage you to discover and embrace your inner diva, too!

I like that! The best of us is what we bring out from within. Nice. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Shelley-Lynne! I'm glad it was instilled at me at an early age that what's inside counts so much more than what's on the outside!
Delete{Kathy} I, too, am thankful for the "sprinklers" in my life. Great attitude!
ReplyDeleteThank you! When I think of the many people that have had an impact on my life in one way or the other, it's awesome to realize so many people cared enough to just mentor, speak kind words or just be there for me. Thanks for chiming in!
DeleteAnd I love your blog title! Definitely will be checking it out :)
DeleteLove this! And, it's a great message for a Monday morning! Thanks for sharing your blog today!
ReplyDeleteGlad it provided some motivation and inspiration. Enjoy the rest of your week!
DeleteI love the passion you write with. Stopping from SITS!
ReplyDeleteAwesome.
ReplyDeleteIn from SITS
Appreciate you stopping by!
DeleteLove it! What a fantastic, inspiring post! Happy SITS day! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks! Glad it was able to provide you some inspiration. Enjoy the rest of your week!
DeleteThats great!! Something I really need to work on. Thanks!!
ReplyDeleteWe're all a work in progress - my divatude definitely has it's up and down days!
DeleteLove the website and the purpose! Today I am visiting from SITS, but I have been here before :)
ReplyDeleteHave a blessed week!
Welcome back! Blessings to you as well!
DeleteI absolutely love this post! I definitely embrace my diva. Happy SITS Day!
ReplyDeleteThank you! Glad you enjoyed it!
DeleteLovely post, Michelle. Now I wanna be a diva too ;)
ReplyDeleteCome on - jump on the diva bandwagon!
DeleteLove this!!
ReplyDeleteYes I agree! It's not just about being a woman who thinks her ish don't stink. It's about self love and reflecting that love without being arrogant.
ReplyDeleteLOL!!! Love your perspective - you so very right!!! Thanks for stopping by :)
DeleteHappy SITS Day again!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks as always Whitney!
DeleteThat is awesome! I love this...
ReplyDeleteThanks! Glad we were able to connect! Have a fantastic week!
DeleteYes, Yes, Yes a powerful yes to DivaTude!
ReplyDeleteIts intriguing... I can strut the DivaTude on stage, but when I'm off... I sometimes forget. Thanks for the reminder & happy SITS day!!
Thanks! Strut that divatude on and off the stage...it's in you :)
DeleteHappy SITS Day!
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteLOVE this. LOVE LOVE LOVE. I want to shout this to everyone I know. You have gained a new follower in me - your positive attitude is contagious and I love it!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Kristin! Welcome to DWP :)
DeleteKnowing who you are and what you want to do with your life is powerful. It's wonderful that you encourage others to figure this out for themselves, too.
ReplyDeleteThanks! Often times I get as much - if not more - encouragement from those I come cross paths with.
DeleteHi! Stopping by from SITS today. I love the positive spin you've put on being a Diva. Great blog.
ReplyDeleteThank you Colleen!
DeleteLove this - so inspiring.
ReplyDeleteHappy SITS day!
Thanks Tricia!!!
DeleteHappy SITS Day, you DIVA! ;) I do love your definition of a DIVA. So much more acceptable.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely :) Thanks so much for stopping by!
DeleteGreat message!!
ReplyDeleteThanks Krystle!
Deleteawesome!! visiting from SITS!!
ReplyDeleteWelcome Jessica :)
DeleteI can tell I'm going to like this blog! Stopping by from SITS. Look forward to more inspiration!
ReplyDeleteAwesome! Appreciate the kind words...feel free to chime in anytime :)
DeleteWhat a fantastic attitude! And congratulations on your SITS day!
ReplyDeleteThank you!!!
DeleteFound you via SITS--awesome acronym!
ReplyDeleteGlad you stopped by! Thanks Meredith!
DeleteTerrific post...I always wondered how to be a Diva! I thought I needed to be rich. :) Thanks for the insight.
ReplyDeleteHa Ha! I figured being rich and famous wasn't going to happen anytime soon so I had to bring the divatude to my level :)
DeleteI LOVE your definition of DIVA! My blog is called the Fierce Diva Guide To Life and like you, to me, Diva is about an attitude of poise, strength, passion, and generosity. So nice to meet a fellow Diva!
ReplyDeleteSounds awesome!!! I'll definitely be paying you a visit soon :)
DeleteI love your definition of a diva! Especially that the last aspect - action. It's great to be inspired and driven but you're right, a diva needs to act on that passion.
ReplyDeleteExactly! Thanks for stopping by!
DeleteReading this makes me want to have my own mission statement. How brilliant it is to claim your values and consider them seriously in your everyday life!
ReplyDeleteGlad I was able to provide some inspiration :)
DeleteHere from SITS! I am now embracing my inner Diva. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteEmbrace it, you wonderful Diva, you!!! Thank you for stopping by!
DeleteGreat post! Happy SITS day!
ReplyDeleteYour "diva" definition is important to remember during the happy times -- but more importantly during the tough times. Very inspiring!
So true Leaza! It has definitely sustained me throughout some storms. Thanks for your insight and stopping by!
DeleteI love your attitude! I love, love, love your attitude!
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing about this... Looking forward to being a DIVA myself... Cheers! :)
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